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Why do some people hesitate to say 'I love you' even after their partners have said it first? How can one interpret this behavior from their loved ones?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 12:15

Why do some people hesitate to say 'I love you' even after their partners have said it first? How can one interpret this behavior from their loved ones?

I told her that I could not keep going out with her knowing she loved me but I did not love her. To do so would be cruel. I know she was broken hearted but I could not pretend to love her just to have someone to have sex with. She was really good in bed but there is so much more to a relationship

She said she loved me but I did not love her and knew I could never love her. She was not a bad person, just not the right person.

Just because someone says that they love you, you have no obligation or requirement to love them. You can not make yourself love someone, it is there or it is not.

Let’s say you have 3 separate manuscripts and send 1 of them to 12 different agents (4 read same copy). Now let’s say 2 agents each liked separate manuscripts and want to move forward. What would you do as far as transparency and negotiation?